Oh my, you have such a way with words that so perfectly translates the magic of our work with such precision, nuance, honesty, and eloquence. The lines about what makes this a ritual rather than transactional resonates deeply with me.
oh how i wish all Dominance was held with such sacred intention. you always make me feel so deeply seen when you write this way. so beautiful, thank you my gorgeous darling dark serpent High Priestess 🐍✨🖤🖤🖤
Gorgeous, magical and once more I am deeply reverent of your calling, passion and the depths at which you heighten these experiences for your Subs. Thank you for sharing this deep and spiritually personal refection. It is an honour. xx
I’ve been following you for a long time now and several times you’ve been a mirror to me and said, but ‘it’s not about what you want Aidan, it’s about what she wants!’
I struggled with that for some time as I felt that I was offering submission, but I actually wasn’t! It wasn’t until Subby Hubby recommended a book to me that I actually finally understood submission.
I actually laughed out loud as I read the first part of the book as I could see myself in what the author was saying. So many men think they’re offering submission when they say ‘I want to be your slave!’ or ‘Please peg me Mistress!’ but it’s actually ALWAYS about what HE wants.
It wasn’t until the book explained things in a non-kink way that I finally understood D/s being all what SHE wants. Often men have many kinky fantasies that their partner has no interest in at all! How then is she being the dominant one if she’s just doing what HE wants? 🥸
If we treat the woman as a Queen and we are her subject, we would never seek to impose our will or expect our desires to be prioritised! We only seek to provide what the Queen wishes and in the way that SHE wants it. So if that means no kink, then that’s just the way it is because SHE doesn’t want it. She can provide it occasionally as a gift, but it’s always for HER to offer as and when she chooses.
It’s also about providing someone you feel is worthy of your submission and she needs to accept your submission also.
When that happens you can see just how beautiful a gift submission is and you naturally stop focusing on your wants and centre her needs instead, because just being able to do whatever she wants to make her happy is a great privilege. Finally understanding this has given me a peace in my soul that I’m very grateful for 🙏🏼
There’s nothing wrong with kinky desires, but they have nothing to do with submission unless it’s what the woman wants 🖤🧎
It makes me very happy to read this. It has taken time but I’m glad you got there eventually. Submissives take note. When you finally realise that is always about HER everything will change. 🖤
Yes, it’s taken me a long time, but things have finally clicked for me Mistress! 😄
It’s like a eureka moment! My own little epiphany 🤗
If there are any submissive men who want to follow an excellent example of a submissive and need someone to ask for advice, you can do no better than asking my good friend Subby Hubby on this platform 🖤
Yes, but your submission is a gift that not every Domme is worthy of from my experience!
Therefore, take your time to find the right woman that you genuinely want to submit to and then offer your submission. The Domme may not always accept the offer, but the important thing is that it’s someone you wish to serve just to make HER happy and not to fulfil your kinky fantasies 🖤🧎
I am intrigued by this viewpoint. Definitely on the right track, but I believe my submission is dependent on the domme acknowledging that the sub also has needs. The domme must make sure those needs are met, or the relationship will sour over time. Yes, the sub should be prioritizing the domme's needs and must change some of their desires to fit, but they still need some love as well.
Oh my, you have such a way with words that so perfectly translates the magic of our work with such precision, nuance, honesty, and eloquence. The lines about what makes this a ritual rather than transactional resonates deeply with me.
Thank you for seeing Me. 😈 I knew we resonated after watching your content.
oh how i wish all Dominance was held with such sacred intention. you always make me feel so deeply seen when you write this way. so beautiful, thank you my gorgeous darling dark serpent High Priestess 🐍✨🖤🖤🖤
Gorgeous, magical and once more I am deeply reverent of your calling, passion and the depths at which you heighten these experiences for your Subs. Thank you for sharing this deep and spiritually personal refection. It is an honour. xx
I’ve been following you for a long time now and several times you’ve been a mirror to me and said, but ‘it’s not about what you want Aidan, it’s about what she wants!’
I struggled with that for some time as I felt that I was offering submission, but I actually wasn’t! It wasn’t until Subby Hubby recommended a book to me that I actually finally understood submission.
I actually laughed out loud as I read the first part of the book as I could see myself in what the author was saying. So many men think they’re offering submission when they say ‘I want to be your slave!’ or ‘Please peg me Mistress!’ but it’s actually ALWAYS about what HE wants.
It wasn’t until the book explained things in a non-kink way that I finally understood D/s being all what SHE wants. Often men have many kinky fantasies that their partner has no interest in at all! How then is she being the dominant one if she’s just doing what HE wants? 🥸
If we treat the woman as a Queen and we are her subject, we would never seek to impose our will or expect our desires to be prioritised! We only seek to provide what the Queen wishes and in the way that SHE wants it. So if that means no kink, then that’s just the way it is because SHE doesn’t want it. She can provide it occasionally as a gift, but it’s always for HER to offer as and when she chooses.
It’s also about providing someone you feel is worthy of your submission and she needs to accept your submission also.
When that happens you can see just how beautiful a gift submission is and you naturally stop focusing on your wants and centre her needs instead, because just being able to do whatever she wants to make her happy is a great privilege. Finally understanding this has given me a peace in my soul that I’m very grateful for 🙏🏼
There’s nothing wrong with kinky desires, but they have nothing to do with submission unless it’s what the woman wants 🖤🧎
It makes me very happy to read this. It has taken time but I’m glad you got there eventually. Submissives take note. When you finally realise that is always about HER everything will change. 🖤
Yes, it’s taken me a long time, but things have finally clicked for me Mistress! 😄
It’s like a eureka moment! My own little epiphany 🤗
If there are any submissive men who want to follow an excellent example of a submissive and need someone to ask for advice, you can do no better than asking my good friend Subby Hubby on this platform 🖤
Yes and listen to women. Listen to Dommes. There isn’t one Domme on here who doesn’t say exactly the same thing. It’s about what we want. ❤️🔥
Yes, but your submission is a gift that not every Domme is worthy of from my experience!
Therefore, take your time to find the right woman that you genuinely want to submit to and then offer your submission. The Domme may not always accept the offer, but the important thing is that it’s someone you wish to serve just to make HER happy and not to fulfil your kinky fantasies 🖤🧎
I am intrigued by this viewpoint. Definitely on the right track, but I believe my submission is dependent on the domme acknowledging that the sub also has needs. The domme must make sure those needs are met, or the relationship will sour over time. Yes, the sub should be prioritizing the domme's needs and must change some of their desires to fit, but they still need some love as well.